From childhood we’ve been told to have patience and sabr. From every little to real trouble we’ve been told to be sabir.
But did anyone told us that what actually sabr is ? the definition of sabr always remained confusing for me, so now let me tell you what it actually is.
Sabr is when you are at the midst of chaos and destruction ,is frazzled and your soul is in shambles but at that time you decide to be happy, instead of mourning over the things that are lost .
Sabr is when you feel your self lost and there’s no earth underneath you and sky also seems to be steamed up, when your soul is fatigued and is not willing to encumber any further burden.
Your spirits that used to be greater than the oceans and your energies that were once more energetic than seismic waves seems to be shattered.
When no one is ready to believe in you and when you become habitual of living with holding a lot of agony and your surroundings become unbearably revolting for you and you start considering it to be your perpetual fate.
At that time when you decide to take a big leap of Faith instead of quitting because of the mesirableness of your life is Sabr.
Sabr is when you decide to forgive someone dismissing your feelings, when you decide to meet the person that once was a torment to you who tore down your trust with your self.
Sabr is surpassing that angry voice in your head, the one that wants to yell at people for being inconsiderate to your struggles .
Sabr is swallowing this voice, learning to channel it towards a heartfelt dua.
Sabr is when you decide to put your faith in God, when you plan to go easy on your self and others, its necessary, because sometimes we get so much indulge and afraid of the outcome of a certain deed that we forget that Allah has already planed better for us.
Sabr doesn’t necessarily needs big scenarios to be demonstrated it can even be implemented in the smallest chores of life.
I don’t say sabr is easy, indeed its tiring and exhausting, but implement it because,
Sabr is beautiful
Yes, it is beautiful, indeed it is.🌸